Valentine's Blog Hop

Hello Everyone,

I'm so glad you are taking the time to drop in and read my Valentine's Post. Now, Valentine's Day has been known for love, lust, and romance. Well, sadly my boyfriend and I broke up over the weekend so I am not in the best shape to talk about love and romance for Valentine's Day. So, I'm going to talk to you about spending Valentine's Day alone. I am going to talk to you about the best love: loving yourself.

So many people think they should only spent time loving themselves on their birthday, or not at all. How about this Valentine's Day you go out and get yourself some flowers or chocolate. Maybe slip into something comfortable, something that makes you feel sexy.

Go home and light a candle, make something delicious and decadent for dinner, sit down and revel in that meal -- when was the last time you ate a meal and thoroughly focused on your food? Spend Valentine's Day loving every second of your life, spend it comforting yourself, and enjoying spending time alone.

I know many of you out there have loved ones to spend Valentine's Day with, maybe a romantic partner or just family. Make sure they know you love them, give you best friend, your sister, your uncle, your crazy aunt, a valentine. Spend the day loving yourself and loving those in your life. I do write a lot about lust I'll share a little naughty with you as well. Making love to yourself is also an acceptable course for the evening. I know society thinks it's taboo and that no good upstanding woman is going to talk about it. There are less social qualms about men taking care of themselves but that is a post for another day. So, after that delicious meal curl up with a sexy novel and take care of your business. Truly dedicate yourself to love on Valentine's Day in all it's forms for all those you love, including yourself.

I also want to say thank you to JoLynne for inviting me to the blog hop. Make sure to stop at the other blogs for the week.

Feb 11
Feb 12
Feb 13 - ME!
Feb 14 - Jolynne Valerie


P.S. I am also doing  giveaway! Leave a comment with your email to be entered to win a query critique from me!! :)


  1. Love it, Monica! And so important... if we don't love and treat ourselves right, how can we seem lovable to another? LOVED your post, and now I've got permission to cook myself a decadent meal and afterward... well---*nevermind* ;)
    xo JoLynne Valerie #ParaGoddess

  2. Love your blog and your absolutely right I will take it a step further and say many of our issues is that we don't love ourselves enough, frequently, and patiently. Thanks for a great blog "Dulce Far Niente" Yasmin:)

  3. Thanks for stopping in Jolynne and Yasmin! Ducle Far Niente indeed! :)

  4. So very true! No matter if it's Valentine's Day or not we should always love ourselves. If you can't love yourself then how can you love someone else. Great message! <3


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